Dear Aunty Aurora, I recently told my wife I was feeling unhappy and she said: “I’m not surprised. This relationship’s never worked.” We’ve been together for ten years and have two little boys. I am 43 and she is 28. I’ve felt things weren’t right for a while. We have nothing in common and barely speak. She sleeps in the spare room now and followed the marriage bombshell with: “I’ve never had an orgasm.” I don’t want to end my marriage – I’d miss the boys too much. Thanks Amadi, Ikoyi-Lagos.Dear Amadi, It’s better for your children to have happy parents apart than warring together. But you had things in common once and you loved each other, so there is a chance you can save your marriage as long as you are both ready to make a real effort. See a relationship counsellor together. You can reignite a flagging sex life but your wife must say what feels good for her. You can’t second-guess.Photo Credit: Getty

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